The advertisement for "Bat Mitzvah" program caught my eye, not only because I have an eleven-year old daughter, but also because of where I saw it: the municipality announcements in the local Modi'in newspaper. Hmmm, I thought, the municipality has a program -- maybe it's interesting. Then I noticed that right next to the "bat mitzvah" ad was a "bar mitzvah" ad. Same size, same font, same layout, could there be two programs offering the same education to boys and girls? Who am I kidding.