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Nine tactics of emotional abuse that Trump’s Sexual Assault Video shows us

Elana Sztokman
Sunday, 09 October 2016
JewFem Blog: Politics and Leadership
Nine tactics of emotional abuse that Trump’s Sexual Assault Video shows us
[This is a follow-up to my essay on Everyday Feminism:  10 Tactics of Emotional Abuse that Trump blatantly used in the presidential debate ] It is hard to listen to the video clip in which Republican Presidential Nominee Donald Trump talks about grabbing a woman’s “pussy”. For many sexual assault survivors, this clip can be very triggering.  What he describes in fun and laughter others have experienced as violent, invasive attacks on their bodies . In fact, within hours of the clip’s release,  millions of women were sharing  their stories of sexual assault, and the ways that they were triggered by the clip. Katie Dupere, a survivor of sexual assault,  described the harsh memories that the recording brought up for her .  “My assault began when this boy ‘grabbed me by the pussy’,” she writes, using the exact act that Trump brags about on the clip.  “To a sexual assault survivor like me, Trump’s words are not the harmless ‘locker room banter’ he claims they are,” she continues. “They are words that reach into the deepest parts of me, plucking out trauma that gets replayed over and over with each new article and retweet. They are reflective of a culture of men that sees women as available to fulfill their desires, even without their consent.” Another survivor, Chrissa Hardy, who was raped when she was 17,  writes that Trump’s bragging  “left me frozen in place. These comments are ones that only a sexual predator would make, and they made me relive my rape all over again.” What’s more, on the tape he has an engaged audience. Billy Bush, a media celebrity and cousin of former president George W. Bush, can be heard laughing throughout, giving Trump the boost and legitimacy for his descriptions of sexual assault. And then it gets worse: Bush convinces Arianne Zucker — the object of Trump’s ogling a moment earlier — to give him a hug. She unwittingly becomes the object in Trump’s fantasy. She went from being an object for ogling to an object for touching. “When women watch that interaction between Trump, Bush and Zucker, they’ll think of the countless times they walked up to a group of jovial men in mid-conversation and felt something in the pit of their stomach,”  writes feminist commentator Jessica Valenti . “They’ll wonder if their sneaking suspicion was right all along — that they were on the outside, that they were the joke.” There is mounting evidence that Trump was not just bragging, but has also done what he said he did — that he  kissed women without consent , grabbed women’s genitals , and even  raped women . Trump issued  an apology of sorts , but his words were  not consoling . That’s because even in his apology, he was still using toxic tactics, still using words to assault women. Like so many other moments of the American presidential election, this episode is replete with examples of toxic abuse. The tape is an example of the connection between verbal abuse and physical abuse. They are often...
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